July 26, 2008
4) Personal possessions:
Your Mum and dad have probably told you a million times about carrying all your valuables in your handbag or in one place and there’s a very good reason for that!
The amount of ladies I see and meet in beautifully tailored and fitted suits and yet they don’t have a single usable pocket! Try to distribute your goods about you.
Remember, if your handbag gets snatched your entire life is literally in there. purse, credit cards, keys to your home, probably mobile telephone, which is then a “double whammy” because you’re now unable to make any calls and chances are you have no change because it’s all in your handbag as well.
Worse still, if you do keep everything in your handbag what’s to stop your assailant rushing straight around to your home because you’ll probably have something in there with your address (like a driving licence) and ransacking your home as well, “triple whammy” and then perhaps finding your car keys and taking that as well “quadruple whammy”.
Find a way to distribute your belongings it makes sense.
Finally if there is no way out don’t be hero, simply hand over your bag immediately using strong body language and disengage from the situation forcefully if necessary.
Goods can always be replaced, you can’t!
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July 11, 2008
3) Voice: Don’t be afraid to use your voice!
It’s one of your most potent weapons!
An assailant is looking for a “victim” an easy target, someone to be intimidated.
Use your voice forcefully and don’t be afraid to scream and shout (in fact in my presentations I wholeheartedly endorse the use of “profanity” or swear words) as this will again serve to highlight your plight!
How many times have you walked down the street and either stopped or slowed down if someone is having a “right old barney” in the street.
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